tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22366945.post115543611806622975..comments2023-10-20T12:02:07.124-04:00Comments on A New Flower Blooms: Guilt and More Guiltabebechhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05827016743055256735noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22366945.post-1155525530838470982006-08-13T23:18:00.000-04:002006-08-13T23:18:00.000-04:00Becoming a mother does not make you immune to bein...Becoming a mother does not make you immune to being frustrated! You're still allowed to have those feelings; kids are kids - they are going to try our patience and frustrate us and it's ok...as long as when you are frustrated you are letting her CIO instead of shaking her. <BR/><BR/>I often have so many of the same feelings - I get so frustrated at Kayla sometimes and most of the time it's not her fault - it's only because she's a toddler! I'm trying to get better about that and better about having more patience. <BR/><BR/>But we are human beings, we can only take so much and we shouldn't expect to be perfect because we're not. I think as moms we're too hard on ourselves.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02441176684416139172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22366945.post-1155439255989131062006-08-12T23:20:00.000-04:002006-08-12T23:20:00.000-04:00ok- this may sound mean- who are these attachment ...ok- this may sound mean- who are these attachment people?? Are they really smarter then You? Did you see their degrees? What school did they go to? How many kids did the have? Your child will learn through time that you are there for them- and sometimes you can do more harm by being there too much for them-- You are of no good to them if you are worn and stressed out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com