You've gotta read Sume's post. The discussion afterward is uneven, but anyone who thinks "people don't really say those things about adoption any more" (be grateful, you're better off in America, you must not love your parents), or thinks that people aren't so blind to racism ("people discriminated against me too! And I wear glasses etc" or "but we're all Americans now") behold many specimens. I am amazed by our capacity to choose to miss the point. So if you read the comments, be sure to go back and reread Sume's piece again.