Paula has written another fantastic post about discussing race, racism, and discrimination (and all kinds of too-often taboo words in transracial adoptive families.) Please take the time to read it. I'll post some of my own thoughts later.
I'm the mother of one amazing son by miraculous birth. Now five years later, I'm the mother of one beautiful daughter too, this time through adoption from Ethiopia. I'm an overthinker extraordinaire, with an extraordinary family.